Sunday, November 15, 2009

Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

my boyfriend is 24 and has been slowly going bald since he was 18 years old. when he is completely bald, i told him i want him to get a hair transplant. he just laughs and says no, he's accepted it. and i say fine, but i find him so much more attractive with hair then without. am i wrong?



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

Yes you are wrong. If you can't accept that going bald is something he's ok with then you need to stop talking to him. That's shallow.



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

If he's accepted it why can't you? If you care about him %26amp; love him for who he is then it shouldn't matter that much to you. If you keep bothering him about it he'll be even more self conscious about it than he already is. He can't help he's losing his hair--it's devastating at any age.



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

um just let him shave his head it looks cute and yea;D



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

don't demand him but tell him that it would make you really happy. If he doesn't want to do it leave it alone. Would you seriously breakup with him over something that he can not prevent?? If the answer is yes then maybe you don't really want to be with him anyway.



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

Ultimately, as it's his hair, it's his decision. If you love him, you should be able to accept it like he has. You can't, and shouldn't, force someone to do something they don't want to.



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

Only if he can demand that you get a nose job and an anal bleaching



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

your name sez it all...do YOU think YOU are being shallow..?.....



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

You should accept him as he is, not as you want him to be. Would you modify your body just to make him happy ?



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

Yes that's wrong. You're very shallow if he has accepted the fact that he is going bald and you haven't than your just not a very good girlfriend. Shame on you!!!



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

no i don thtink youre wrong. maybe if you tell him that youre not attracted to him without hair, he'll give in. or write a heartfelt essay? it worked to convince my dad of something



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

OMG that is so sad. My husband is bald and started going bald when he was 18. he had to take some meds when he was growing up that severely messed him up. After his break up with his high school sweetheart (had to do because she was EMBARRASSED OF HIM) he shaved his head.



I think he looks amazingly gorgeous and I have to say he gets alot of attention from the lady's, he has an awesome sense of humor and always has his beautiful smile on. I asked him one day what made him leave his ex, he said she just could love him for him or accept him for him. Now I'm not saying that your scenario is like his but you might want to think about his feelings, I mean seriously how would you feel if he started telling you you need to lose more weight, the problem is that now these days we want the perfect everything when we ourselves aren't perfect....Look at the other qualities he has and what he does for you, if those qualities don't stand out then maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship...



Is it wrong to demand that my boyfriend get a hair transplant?

I can understand why you would want him to get a transplant - you think it would look much better.



But if you stop and think about this:



- He isn't that bothered about it



- The fact that you keep nagging him to get it done probably upsets him and makes him feel self-conscious about being bald



- If you insist enough, he may do it, but he might resent it, especially because you say he doesn't care about going bald.



- If you insist enough, he may actually think: "Well, hang on a minute: this girl is embarrased about how I look, she cares more about that than about who I am, what my personality is like. Perhaps she's not right for me"



I know you think he will look better with more hair and that doesn't necessarily mean you don't love him, but the point is that HE doesn't want to change and it's HIS body/hair that is in question.



So you're probably better off letting it go and enjoying the other good things about him that you like.



Plus, to be perfectly honest, in a decade or so, most of the men his age will have started going bald too... Think about how YOU would feel if he asked you to have plastic cirgury about something that didn't bother you and that you didn't want to change...



Good luck!

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